Marrage and passing

Yancy,
My condolences, so sorry to hear that. My wife of 37 years & best friend of almost 40 years passed away from cancer in 2009. Like the others say, hang in there...I won't kid you, there will be tough times, but it will get better. Don't be hasty in giving up the things that mean a lot to you, that's what will help you have the strength you need. With the help of my kids, family, & friends, I made it through those times & I have now started another life I never knew I would ever know, I got married 4 weeks ago to another fine woman. I know it's hard to see it now, but life will go on. There are many who have had to go down that road.
Don't know what else to say, just have faith...
Ron in CO...

Yancey,
So sorry to hear of your loss,
All i can say is turn to God and he will get you through anything life sends your way.
Please let us know if we can do anything and i will keep you in my prayers.

My heartfelt and sincere condolence for your loss Yancey. God will help you through this.

YANCEY, sorry to hear of your loss. ROY

Yancy I am so sorry to hear of your loss I truly mean it. My prayers go out to you and your family. there is nothing more important on this earth than our loved ones. But hang in there and allow yourself to greave and keep your friends and family close

Hi, Yancy44.
I offer you my condolences at this time of loss for you. The only other thing I would say is this: "Ask yourself if your late wife would have wanted you to stop living when she died or would she have wanted you to go on living as full and happy a life as you can."

I lost my first-born son to leukaemia at age 4 1/2. I had TWO HOURS of grieving - SIX WEEKS BEFORE he died, after his mother and I were told that the doctors had run out of treatments and that he had about 6 weeks to live. At the end of that two hours, I changed my perception of the situation. KNOWING that NONE of us are going to get out of this life 'alive' and that it is not a matter of 'if' but rather a matter of 'when', I decided to celebrate having known him for the 4 1/2 short years that I did know him and to be thankful for the wonderful examples of his love and his courage. I have not grieved for him since that moment but have indeed celebrated and been thankful.

I did the same thing when my mother passed away with leukaemia 10 years later.

Just my 0.02. Hope it helps.

Hi, Yancy44.
I offer you my condolences at this time of loss for you. The only other thing I would say is this: "Ask yourself if your late wife would have wanted you to stop living when she died or would she have wanted you to go on living as full and happy a life as you can."

I lost my first-born son to leukaemia at age 4 1/2. I had TWO HOURS of grieving - SIX WEEKS BEFORE he died, after his mother and I were told that the doctors had run out of treatments and that he had about 6 weeks to live. At the end of that two hours, I changed my perception of the situation. KNOWING that NONE of us are going to get out of this life 'alive' and that it is not a matter of 'if' but rather a matter of 'when', I decided to celebrate having known him for the 4 1/2 short years that I did know him and to be thankful for the wonderful examples of his love and his courage. I have not grieved for him since that moment but have indeed celebrated and been thankful.

I did the same thing when my mother passed away with leukaemia 10 years later.

Just my 0.02. Hope it helps.